I am always slightly amazed by the number of people that will ask “how can I get Dragons to do what I want?” Would you ever consider attempting to manipulate a friend in this way? Actually I suspect that some of the people who ask this question probably would, but most are coming from a genuine place of misunderstanding which is ego-based, and very influenced by TV and literature where the humans generally wield Dragon Power as a weapon.

On this planet, we have been taught for a long time that humans are the top of the pyramid, and that we must manipulate energy in order to get what we want. NONE OF THIS IS TRUE. Humans are far from the top of any pyramid and energy manipulation of any kind is ultimately going to bite you in the bum. HARD.

So, we don’t “make” Dragons  do anything. ANYTHING. We do not demand, whine, stamp our feet, or lie on our backs and wail. Well, you can do those things. The Dragons will look at you with varying degrees of bafflement and amusement, and then move on. Instead, we ASK.

We request their help and support with respect and reverence. And then we step back and let them get on with it. You would not ask a friend to come over and help with dinner while you have a few other urgent things to do and then sit in the kitchen peering over their shoulder pointing out exactly how you’d like them to do or not do the various tasks involved. (And if you did, would that friend be inclined to come back the next time they were asked?)

RESPECT is key here. And it’s not just because Dragons are high-frequency multi-dimensional beings. You are also a high-frequency multi-dimensional being—you just happen to have chosen to focus on a physical experience right now.

You treat Dragons with respect because respect and reverence are integral parts of any kind of energy work these days. This has not always been true in the past. And sadly, it’s not always the case now. There are practitioners out there who will subscribe to a different way of being. But true Dragons simply won’t put up with that. They have no interest in working with anyone or anything who does not have integrity. They will not show up to support you in a healing meditation or anywhere else under those conditions.

Integrity shows up as honesty, respect and reverence, transformed by Divine Grace. This does not mean that you waft about on a sunbeam. It means you’re prepared to be honest with yourself about your requests and your motives for your requests. Are they coming from a place of integrity? Or is there a whiff of manipulation about them? And if you’re muttering “well, I added ‘for the highest good’ in there, so I’m sure it’s fine, really” — take another look.

• Why are you asking for help?
• Are you genuinely coming from a place of inner integrity and humility?
• Can you accept that maybe the help you’ll get this time will not be what you want, but might be what you need?
• Can you refrain from blaming and lashing out if this turns out  to be the case? 

I’m not trying to scare you away. I’m asking that you get very focused and clear on what it is you’re asking for support with. And sometimes the request can simply be “please help me get clear on what I most need support with right now.” 

The Dragons are not here to solve your problems for you.

They are here to assist you in learning what you want to learn, and in helping you move into a different energy frequency while still in a physical body. They will not work for very long with someone who abdicates responsibility or likes to blame everyone but themselves for the situation they find themselves in. Dragons have very limited patience for victim-mode. If you’re working on moving yourself out of that victim-mode space, they’ll be happy to assist. If wallowing is occurring, you’ll be on your own in a puddle of your own misery as they wave a cheery (usually temporary, they do give us lots of chances) good-bye. 

They will not assist in harming others in any way at your behest. Even if you think those others “deserve” it. I get well-meaning requests on a regular basis from people whose hearts are broken by certain situations, and they ask me to “set” the Dragons on those people who have lost their own inner light to the extent that they can inflict terrible cruelty on animals or children. It breaks my heart when I read these messages. But all I can ask is that the Dragons lend what assistance they can, whatever is appropriate to the situation, and suggest that the letter-writers contact people in this human world whose job it is to try to right these terrible wrongs.

These are extreme examples. But in some way, we’ve all bought in, even a little bit, to the idea of this powerful mythical avenger who can wreak havoc on the wrongdoer and rescue the innocent. But the parameters of this world are not set up that way. You can absolutely ask the Dragons to help any given situation, but they will not harm other beings for you. If an energy being is promising you this, no matter how good your intentions, I assure you it is not a true Dragon that is working with you, and I advise you to cease and desist immediately before things get really messy, really fast, for you. 

For those of you who are willing to take responsibility for yourselves, your thoughts, and your actions, the Dragons are willing and enormously helpful companions who will do all in their power to support you in expanding your consciousness and manifesting more magic and light in your life.

You could ask them to help to keep your energy field clear. You might also want to ask them to clear your home, the land around it, your place of work, your car…anywhere your physical body spends time. They will happily clear out any negative entities that have wandered in there without your permission.

If you have given permission for a person/place/thing to be in your field, even if you’re not conscious of having done so, they can’t clear that out without you giving them express permission to do so. (Nor can they clear another person’s field without their permission.)

But if your field is clear of the other gunk, you’ll find it much easier to see that stuff that’s not yours, but that you’re allowing to hang out in your field, and to take the necessary steps to deal with that. Again, with their full support.

They can also clear your online spaces, if you have a business website or even just your personal social media accounts, you can ask them to clear any stagnant energy around those spaces too.

Dragons can help you to set appropriate boundaries in your life. We tend to think of boundaries in a somewhat defensive way, as a way of keeping undesirable energies out. That is what they do of course, but they also keep our own energy clean and clear and in our own appropriate space.

We can be as guilty of blobbing our energy all over a situation as anyone else. It takes mindfulness and practice to ensure that we are maintaining healthy and appropriate boundaries and the Dragons can help with that if you ask them.

They will show you where you tend to let energies in that are not in your “highest and best” (what is optimal for you) and also where you let energy out, i.e. in your efforts to “fix” something or someone.

It is then up to you to take the next steps of intending to shift that energy, but you’ll have a full support team with you on the way!

Dragons can’t take away the lessons you’ve set for yourself. But they can support you through the learning, and perhaps, if you’re open, they can show you a different way of receiving that learning so that it doesn’t need to be quite so in-your-face. 

Ah, the big question that so many beings on this planet have come here to experience. How can the Dragons help me be more abundant?

They’re actually some of the best guides in this respect, because abundance in all its forms comes so easily to the Dragons. They literally embody that magical frequency of receiving and flow.

And because so many of them are so deeply connected with this planet and the beings who live on her surface, they understand all the weird limitations we place on ourselves, accept and make real. So how can they best help you?

By asking them to show you all the ways in which you have decided you are not an abundant being. This might be a limiting belief about money, a resistance to taking action because of fear, or any of about a million other reasons. But you need to see at least some of the main ways in which you’re choosing to hold yourself in place (and most of the time, these will be unconscious beliefs) before you can let them go.

This is not about blaming yourself or anyone else. Everyone does the best they can, given their information at the time. What you need is better information. And the Dragons will not only help you with seeing the ways in which you sabotage yourself, but they’ll also give you a lot of support in making changes in your inner world so that you can see the manifestations of those changes in your life.

If you'd enjoy playing more with the Dragons on abundance, check out the Dragon Gems series with the Golden Dragons! 

This is actually my favourite one, and it also encompasses all of the above, because so much of that is wrapped up in getting to the point where you are living in your power.

A lot has to drop before you can just be your magic. Most of the “work” is letting go of old stuff. And Dragons are so good at not hauling around extra baggage. Once you begin working with Dragon energy, alone or with the support of a healer, you really are committing to living in your power and being the light that you are in the world.

This does not mean you have to quit your job and head off to the mountains to meditate (even if that is occasionally tempting), it’s all about being your unique frequency, your unique magic, and bringing that light into every aspect of your life, whether you’re at the supermarket, working in an office or out walking in nature.

Many of the Divine Dragon Energy Healing™ graduates have found that the energetic tools they learn during our time together continue to be among their most useful and practical energy tools for daily life and for living their magic every day.